Happy New Year to all !!
It's a nice time of year, I hope you've all had an enjoyable Christmas and new year with your friends and families.
It was great for us to be home, after missing so many Christmases away in the past decades.
I guess like many I've done my share of reflecting on 2015 and resolving for 2016... On the whole it was a pleasing year, we took the plunge and made the transition back to Oz. It's been quite an adjustment as I described in the previous post, but after recalibrating my expectations I'm finding a lot of happiness and satisfaction in this new life, we definitely made the right decision and no regrets !
Re: finances, it's been quite a big focus for me the past 18 months. it's now quite well on track. Asset allocation is largely on target. I would like to tone down finances and focus on different areas going forwards. There's a few more things to tidy up :
1. Write a 5 year plan : keen to sell two properties (leaving just one IP and our PPOR). Re-invest the funds in shares / FI / cash as per existing AA. These are the first properties we bought, have held them a long while. And they are located in perth which is a pretty tough market right now. No rush to sell, but definitely will move at least one of them (ideally both) in the next 5 years. And certainly to sell both in the next 10 years. In the 5 year plan, I'm going to estimate the proceeds (after CGT) from these sales, plus other income we expect in the next 5 years, less living costs, to work out the net savings/investment rate per quarter. And set a regular invest plan based on this. My idea is to spread it over 5 years instead of doing nothing until the property sells and then having a huge lump to deal with. I think this is not much work maybe 30mins or an hour max. And once I have this plan, the goal is to switch finances to autopilot mode, with regular monthly investments and minimal market watching in between (let's see how long this will last :) )
2. Write an eBook : I've been mulling the idea for sometime, and a recent exchange in the MMM forums put this back on my radar. There's been a lot of great exchange in the Australian investing Thread. I'm keen to summarise FFA's views on how to invest simply, based on my experience and what I've read and learned. I'm also keen to fundraise for a charity, so will be requesting voluntary (completely optional) donations to a yet to be determined worthwhile cause, for those who read the eBook and find it useful and decide they want to make a donation. The drafting is well under way and I'm tapping up some kind and knowledgeable souls from the MMM forum to give me feedback. Regarding the subject, it's going to be focused on simple investing. May aim is to write something helpful to a wide audience, and I believe simple index investing is an 80/20 rule approach. Actually even better really, since the final 20% usually detracts from performance rather than adding ! There's diminishing returns and then there's shooting yourself in the foot..... Aim is to have it out in Feb, so watch this space !!
Re: other goals/changes. We've decided to put the kids in childcare for a few days per week from Feb. We feel we need a bit more time to get our lives back. I've also started part-time work which might increase from 1 day to maximum 2 days per week. But in the long term (e.g. after 6 months or so) i'm thinking to go back to 1 day. I'm keen to spend more time in our garden which is a work in progress, to get back into some exercise, and socially to re-connect with old friends and make some new ones. Less time checking emails and online is also a goal (MMM forum only once or twice per week, let's see how long that lasts too :) )
Well, that's about it for now. I'm excited about the year ahead and hope you all have some plans and goals to look forward to!
A final thought that I read recently " Find happiness in the simple things. Life is short ! " - by kane cornes, reflecting on the sad and unexpected death of football coach and mentor, Phil Walsh
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Tuesday, 5 January 2016
Monday, 28 December 2015
Day to day life after FIRE
I got this question in response to the last post " If possible, can you talk a bit about what you do in your day to day life after FIRE? "
Of course it's possible, so here goes....
Well, it's been a little over 9 months since we moved back to Oz and I quit my job. I guess there are many different versions of FIRE, depending on your life situation, age, etc. In my case, FIRE involved moving countries and returning to the place I grew up, but hadn't lived here for 17 years. The bigger transition by far has been giving up a cushy Mon-Fri office job to be a Stay At Home Dad. I guess that would be the four letter answer to this question - SAHD.
I severely underestimated how time consuming and exhausting it is to look after kids. I took a lot of things for granted before when I used to walk out the door to head to work. But just to catch myself in case I start whinging, it is completely a labour of love ! I wouldn't change anything. And I know it will only be the blink of an eye before my eldest is in kindy (well, a little over a year actually but the time flies), so I want to make the most of this time while I have it.
I think it would've been helpful though to have a more realistic expectation of Stay at Home Parenting before I started. It would've saved me some frustration in the first months, as I gradually re-calibrated ... Maybe something for you to consider Rob_S (?)
So coming back to the question, usually 5-6 days of each week I'm looking after two toddlers together with my wife. We have 1-2 days where grandparents help out with childcare, and those are usually bursts of productivity to do shopping, gardening, maintenance, errands, etc. I visit my great grandmother who's in an aged care facility.
And now to share a recent development for me, I've started some part time contracting work in the past months. I'll put this forward as my excuse for the infrequent blogging of late ! It's only one day per week, but has been a nice change for me. I guess I wasn't that successful at the "RE" part of FIRE !!
What else can I share ? We see plenty of family and the kids are developing bonds with their grandparents, uncles/aunties and cousins, which is the main reason we wanted to be back, so that is fantastic. Asides from family our social life has been limited, which I guess is not uncommon for parents with toddlers, but it's something we're keen to change in 2016 to reconnect with old friends (and make new ones too hopefully !)
Well, that's all I can think of for now. Maybe quite different to expectations, sorry no fairytale holidays or golfing to report as yet, but hopefully more of those to come also :)
Wishing you all every happiness in 2016 ahead !!!
Of course it's possible, so here goes....
Well, it's been a little over 9 months since we moved back to Oz and I quit my job. I guess there are many different versions of FIRE, depending on your life situation, age, etc. In my case, FIRE involved moving countries and returning to the place I grew up, but hadn't lived here for 17 years. The bigger transition by far has been giving up a cushy Mon-Fri office job to be a Stay At Home Dad. I guess that would be the four letter answer to this question - SAHD.
I severely underestimated how time consuming and exhausting it is to look after kids. I took a lot of things for granted before when I used to walk out the door to head to work. But just to catch myself in case I start whinging, it is completely a labour of love ! I wouldn't change anything. And I know it will only be the blink of an eye before my eldest is in kindy (well, a little over a year actually but the time flies), so I want to make the most of this time while I have it.
I think it would've been helpful though to have a more realistic expectation of Stay at Home Parenting before I started. It would've saved me some frustration in the first months, as I gradually re-calibrated ... Maybe something for you to consider Rob_S (?)
So coming back to the question, usually 5-6 days of each week I'm looking after two toddlers together with my wife. We have 1-2 days where grandparents help out with childcare, and those are usually bursts of productivity to do shopping, gardening, maintenance, errands, etc. I visit my great grandmother who's in an aged care facility.
And now to share a recent development for me, I've started some part time contracting work in the past months. I'll put this forward as my excuse for the infrequent blogging of late ! It's only one day per week, but has been a nice change for me. I guess I wasn't that successful at the "RE" part of FIRE !!
What else can I share ? We see plenty of family and the kids are developing bonds with their grandparents, uncles/aunties and cousins, which is the main reason we wanted to be back, so that is fantastic. Asides from family our social life has been limited, which I guess is not uncommon for parents with toddlers, but it's something we're keen to change in 2016 to reconnect with old friends (and make new ones too hopefully !)
Well, that's all I can think of for now. Maybe quite different to expectations, sorry no fairytale holidays or golfing to report as yet, but hopefully more of those to come also :)
Wishing you all every happiness in 2016 ahead !!!
Saturday, 20 June 2015
Where did our wealth come from ? Part three
The aim of this third post is to draw deeper insights into
how we achieved FIRE. So far we have established that the majority (approx two
thirds) was derived from retained earnings, and one third from investment
returns. This seems to tell you what we did but not really how we did it, i.e.
what did we do differently than the average person/family to enable us to
retire so much earlier. When I first conceived this post I intended to perform
some kind of benchmarking analysis. For example, the average person earning X,
spending Y, .... and compare this against our earning A, spending B, .... ; to
try and build a bridge spanning the 27 year gap between our early retirement
versus conventional (let’s say 65 years). Maybe I will still do this one day, but
I can’t be bothered right now – sorry! Instead I am just going to try and list
out the key things we did differently from most other people, and then try to
judge which of these differences really made a difference. I hope this will be
more useful and insightful than just stopping at the usual message: save more /
spend less (although that actually is the crux of it!)
What did we do differently ?
Flying start (new car, no debt, no HECS)
Double Income No Kids until 30’s
Property Investment and accelerated loan repayment
Overseas “Expat” for 12 years
Carless decade
Frugal spending
High salary / career progression
Which differences really made a difference ?
To varying extents, all of the above strategies helped us
reach FF in fast time. Some of them probably saved a year or two of work,
others maybe cut a decade or even more. Some of them are also inter-related.
Let’s go through them one by one...
·
Flying start (new car, no debt, no HECS) : This
certainly was a boost, partly down to part-time work and saving while studying
at Uni, and partly generous parents who wanted to pay off my Uni fees. I guess
it’s not a silver bullet, but probably a year or two of head start versus the
average person with a car loan / HECS debt.
·
Double Income No Kids until 30’s : I used to
think this was a huge factor, but so far after 3 years of parenthood, I’m
starting to wonder if the kid factor is not such a massive financial drain as
what I had feared (perhaps its still too early to say). Also, I personally
wouldn’t advocate making this life decision based on economics. For us, it took
quite some years before we felt ready and excited to have kids, and there were
periods when we questioned whether we would have them at all. The biological
clock certainly played a role as a forcing mechanism and we are both extremely
glad to have two wonderful children. Having said all of that, I think
financially it is far more optimal to be DINKs and save/invest the surplus in
your 20’s. I guesstimate this can be worth 5-10 years versus a couple who have
kids in their early 20’s, and resultant impact on earnings (career break /
slowdown) and expenses (childcare, kids costs, etc). Again, to reiterate I
wouldn’t advocate deferring kids for financial reasons. If you know you want
kids and are ready and eager to have them, then go ahead and do it !
·
Property Investment and accelerated loan
repayment : I think the key factor is the last part. Our serial property
investment was an effective forced saving mechanism. We didn’t overleverage. I
feel our investment performance was neutral. We didn’t pick great properties
but we didn’t pick lemons either. We had a good run overall with tenants over
the years. It probably helped us get there a bit faster but I honestly don’t
feel it made a huge difference versus if we had stuck it in index ETF’s and not
used any leverage over all the years.
·
Overseas “Expat” for 12 years : The first seven
of those years were on a traditional multinational company expatriate package,
with lots of generous allowances and equalisations. This was a big income boost
and enabled us to increase savings substantially. Not all expats capture the
benefit, many spend or travel it away. In our case, I think we enjoyed
ourselves but also tried to make the most of the financial opportunity. Aside
from the salary aspects, there are factors like being a tax non resident of
Australia. I think we didn’t capture this opportunity nearly as much as we
might have in hindsight. In particular, with investment more in shares than
property to capture greater benefit. As per the kids factor, I think key life
decisions such as this, i.e. where do I choose to live, should be made
holistically and not just based on economics. The opportunity to live abroad
for us brought many positives to travel and experience different cultures, and
the fact we could get ahead financially was the icing on the cake. I guess this
helped us quite a bit, perhaps a 3 years short cut, off the top of my head.
·
Carless decade : We were lucky to live in big
cities with excellent public transport systems (i.e. not places like Oz, US,
where it’s hard to live without a car). Car’s are a financial drain and living
without one for 10 years must’ve saved us a fair amount. Again it’s not a
silver bullet, but would’ve contributed perhaps a year or two of avoided work.
Just a process check, adding up the above I get roughly 12 years
worth of avoided work. We reached FF approx 27 years earlier than conventional
retirement age, so that leaves another 15 years to account for. And that brings
us to the two generic early retirement “must dos” – earn more / spend less.
·
Frugal spending : I’m unsure whether we are really
frugal people, but let’s go with the description nonetheless. As I’ve
mentioned, we have never been in the habit of budgeting or tracking expenses.
But definitely I would consider myself tight with money and someone who likes
to bargain hunt, I’m sure I inherited that from my folks. Some of this has
inevitably rubbed off on Mrs FFA too after hanging around with me for so long!
We are not materialistic people and spend little on clothes or brands. The
purse strings have certainly loosened a lot over the years, and definitely we
have accumulated our fair share of useless “stuff” and made some stupid impulse
purchases just like nearly everyone else does. That was a bit of a ramble but
to cut to the chase I would estimate from a NW accumulation perspective, these
“frugal” tendencies carved at least some 2-5 years of work versus the average. But
don’t forget a lower spending level has the double whammy effect of faster NW
growth AND lower NW required for FF. The latter is a much more substantial
effect in our case. Our typical annual spend of $30-40k (including two kids) is
far below the numbers I see for “comfortable retirement” which are of the order
of $55k (and that’s for a couple without kids). If one’s spending is 40% lower
than the average, then one can also accumulate 40% less in retirement funds.
That is a huge shortcut; decade(s).
·
High salary / career progression : Without going
into details, my salary has been above average and career progression
relatively good/fast. I had a good run for 18 years. Benchmarking against an
average income, I expect this is a big factor driving our early FF. It’s also
the reason we managed to achieve such a high savings rate of approx 80%, which
was more about high earning than extreme saving. I guess this was worth at
least 10 years, probably more.
Summary
This post identified seven things we did differently from
the average person and attempted to guesstimate how many years each of these
factors contributed towards earlier FF. In our case, a successful career, an
extended period as DINKs, and frugal spending are the key factors. As I have
stated in earlier posts, increased earning and reduced spending are both very
important but if I had to pick one I would target sustainable spending
reduction as the most critical driver of FF (due to the double whammy and
controllability). I hope this gives you some insight and ideas on how to plan
your own path to FF.
Monday, 18 May 2015
Where did our wealth come from ? Part two
I sat down recently and tried as best as possible to figure out where we accumulated our wealth over the years. I won’t be posting any absolute numbers here but will talk in percentages, which still tell the basic story. This post will aim to estimate where the wealth was made based on the various buckets of Earning (net of Spending), Saving, Investing. This will be a good start, but I’m also interested to try and draw deeper insights on what really enabled us to achieve FF in accelerated time. That will be the focus of the next post, i.e. to identify what strategies we used to accumulate wealth faster than the average person, and which of these were the most effective.
Now for the hard work of backcasting the
past 17 years and analysing where the money came from.
Let’s start at the beginning : As a 20 year
old bright-eyed, Uni graduate. I must admit, I was lucky to be able to start
from scratch (and not negative). Two things helped me get off to a flying
start: 1) I had saved money from part-time work while in Uni to buy my first
car with cash and 2) my parents had paid my Uni fees so I had no HECS debt.
So, from this starting point, the task is
to make a bridge from – age 20 / 0% to age 38 / 100% net worth.
Despite being a relatively detailed person,
I haven’t kept budgets and financial statements that will enable me to
forensically calculate this, so we will have to make some simplifying
assumptions. Fortunately, I have tended to buy and hold investments, and the
majority of investment has been in a handful of residential properties, so I
will start by back calculating the capital gain and approx. income derived from
these over the years as a percentage
of current net worth:
·
Property Capital Gains (after
provision for CGT) : +20%
·
Property Net Income (after
interest on mortgages) : +6%
I have also been a long-term regular
investor in shares, but it has always been a small allocation versus property.
Regrettably I don’t have good records of all the capital gains and income from
these over the years, but my best estimate of the contribution is :
·
Share/Cash Investment returns
(including Superannuation returns) : +9%
Please note, the above are contributions to net
worth from these investments, they are not asset allocations. My actual asset
allocations are currently something like 55% Property (too much, I know!), 15%
Shares, 10% Super, 20% Cash. The point of this exercise is to identify where
the money came from, not where it has been invested.
To recap so far, we have accounted for a
third of my net worth being generated from Investing, with 26% from returns on
residential property and 9% from returns on shares/cash. Referring back to the
FF waterfall (and ignoring the Savings bucket which is included in cash), so
the balance two thirds must have come from the surplus of Earnings over Spending.
It’s going to be difficult for me to break it down in any more detail except to
say :
·
Earning (Salary/wages) less Spending
: +65% ( = 100 – 20 – 6 – 9
%)
I guess this reinforces my position
regarding the preferred pathway to FF being to focus on the “Earning less
Spending” part of the equation, moreso than the Investing.
The final piece of backcasting is to reconcile
our historical after tax Earnings (based on employment contracts, bonuses, tax
returns etc) versus the “Earning less Spending” contribution calculated above.
Again I don’t have the full records of the past 18 years at my fingertips, so
this involves some degree of estimation, but here is the figure I came up with…
·
Earning (Salary/wages) : +80%
·
Implied Spending : -15% ( = 65 – 80 %)
I must say that before doing the sums, I
was expecting the Earnings to be a much larger multiple of net worth, leaving
behind a huge amount of Spending that I would have no idea where all the money
went. But this result is a pleasant surprise. So much so in fact that I am
questioning the accuracy of my calculations and wondering if I’ve missed a
chunk of income somewhere. The inferred “savings rate” is 80% ( = 65 / 80 *
100), which is at the high end based on this poll in the MMM forums:
In conclusion, having gone through the
analysis, it seems the vast majority of net worth came from our Earning (80%),
i.e. active income from salary and wages accumulated over the years. Out of
this, a relatively small portion was required for Spending (15%) on our basic
needs and wants, leaving behind roughly two thirds of the net worth being
contributed by “Earning less Spending”. The residual third has been generated
from Investing, i.e. passive income and capital gains from property (26%) and
shares/cash (9%).
This has been a useful exercise and only deepens
my opinion that the key to achieving FF is at the top of the waterfall. Efforts
to minimize Spending and maximise Earning will have the biggest impact for most
people. Of course it is always beneficial to invest wisely and put your money
to work effectively, but the impact is second order in comparison. If you are
serious about FF, you need to focus your mind and effort where it will make the
most impact. In part three (whenever I eventually get around to writing it !), I will dig deeper into this and try to benchmark the
various strategies we used to reach FF.
Wednesday, 6 May 2015
Where did our wealth come from ? Part one
I was reading this recent MMM blog http://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2015/01/26/calculating-net-worth/
and it got me thinking... Where did our stash actually come from?
Of course, I have a fair idea that a large
chunk came from salaries, out of which some was spent. And then we have had
lots of investment primarily in property, which has made money over the years.
While I have a good handle on our balance sheet, net worth and asset allocation
today, I couldn’t definitively tell you where it came from, or answer questions
raised in this post e.g. what was our savings rate?
In some ways it’s an academic question, but
I’m kind of curious and I guess some readers will be too. Also I’m wondering to
what extent I have practiced what I preach, about controlling spending and
maximizing earning as being the two most important pillars to focus on. So this
is the background to the following series, which will be in three parts.
1.
Our financial story
2.
Backcasting Net Worth into FF
buckets
3.
Accelerated wealth strategies
Financial chronology
Here’s a brief summary of our main
financial milestones over the past 17-18 years. Sorry I’m not including all the
gory details of salaries, property prices, etc – they are private and I don’t
think they’re required details for the basic questions I’m trying to answer
here.
|
Year(s)
|
Milestone /
Activity
|
|
0
|
Graduated Uni debt free. Used savings to buy new
car. Moved cities to start work.
|
|
1
|
First year of work. Mrs FFA still studying. Company
pays rent. Saving for house deposit
|
|
2
|
Bought property 1 (20% deposit) and moved in. Mrs
FFA now working
|
|
4 to 10
|
Bought investment properties 2, 3 and 4. Roughly
paid off each mortgage before buying next
|
|
4 to 6
|
Started some small share trading/investment, without
huge success (or failure)
|
|
6
|
Expatriated overseas. Rent out property 1.
|
|
6-16
|
Regular monthly investment in retail actively managed
funds (CFS, MLC, Perpetual etc)
|
|
10
|
Relocated to different country, still overseas
|
|
12
|
Paid off all mortgages properties 1-4. Switched from
expat to local terms, paying rent again!
|
|
14
|
Bought property 5(overseas) and moved in
|
|
15
|
Parenthood ! Demolished property 4 and built new
house (our intended post FIRE home). Mrs FFA becomes a SAHM.
|
|
17
|
Belatedly discovered ETF’s. Switched all mgd funds
(2% fees) into low cost ETF’s and direct ASX blue chips
|
|
18
|
Quit job to return “home” to Australia!
|
Hopefully the above time-line gives you a
good enough impression of our trajectory towards FF. A few key points to
highlight :
·
We invested heavily in
properties, but with moderate gearing and aggressive loan repayments. We did
not cascade mortgages on top of each other. (Note : Just to make sure you have
the right idea, these properties are villas or small houses, not McMansions !)
·
We enjoyed a lengthy period of
expatriate living with company allowances for housing, etc
·
We invested consistently in
shares over the long-term but at small scale and using high cost actively
managed funds. At the end, our share portfolio was roughly equivalent in size
to having another Australian property.
Data keeping
It has been an eye opener for me since
reading FIRE blogs to see the extent to which people track living expenses. We
have never really budgeted, let alone track how much we spend. Fortunately we
are not big consumers or materialists, so I doubt the lack of these habits has
dented our wealth too badly, but it is hard to say how much more effective we
might have been over the years. One thing is for sure, the lack of such data
makes it difficult to approach a task like this and figure out where the money
came from. I will have to do my best to estimate and fill in the gaps.
Back in the early days, I did use to track
Net Worth in a book. Initially I did it every month, but then after some years
I regret I also fell out of this habit. I am trying to track down that book now,
but it will take some more searching through boxes. Certainly it would be very
handy for this exercise to have a timeline of our NW progress.
Coming up next
So that set’s the scene. In the next post I
will analyse from our current NW all the way back to the beginning. While I
don’t have records of how much we’ve spent over the past 17 years, I can
estimate how much we’ve earned in salaries and the returns on our investments. From
this data, I will infer spending and savings rate, as well as shed some light
on what proportion of the NW was generated from active versus passive income.
Friday, 24 April 2015
Landing in Oz
We've been back for 6 or 7 weeks now and the time has flown!
This won't be a long reflection on having transitioned to FIRE, I'll save that for later. To be honest it has still barely sunk in yet.
Our FIRE is a jumble of several things - 1) quiting my "career", 2) relocating home after 17 years, 3) being a Stay At Home Dad.
[ Note : Points 1) and 3) only apply to me; Mrs FFA has already been for some years and I now empathise much better with all the things she has been telling me! ]
So far, I've felt the impact most of point 3). Being a SAHM or SAHD is a tough gig and must be one of the most under-appreciated and undervalued roles you could imagine. I guess you have to do it yourself to realise, that's how my eyes were opened.
From a practical perspective, the move has gone relatively smoothly, all things considered. We have had a lot of help and generosity from family which has made a huge difference. There's still many relocation issues to attend to, but I am hopeful some spare time will emerge to write some new posts here. The next plan is to put up a high-level analysis of how we generated our wealth, so stay tuned!
This won't be a long reflection on having transitioned to FIRE, I'll save that for later. To be honest it has still barely sunk in yet.
Our FIRE is a jumble of several things - 1) quiting my "career", 2) relocating home after 17 years, 3) being a Stay At Home Dad.
[ Note : Points 1) and 3) only apply to me; Mrs FFA has already been for some years and I now empathise much better with all the things she has been telling me! ]
So far, I've felt the impact most of point 3). Being a SAHM or SAHD is a tough gig and must be one of the most under-appreciated and undervalued roles you could imagine. I guess you have to do it yourself to realise, that's how my eyes were opened.
From a practical perspective, the move has gone relatively smoothly, all things considered. We have had a lot of help and generosity from family which has made a huge difference. There's still many relocation issues to attend to, but I am hopeful some spare time will emerge to write some new posts here. The next plan is to put up a high-level analysis of how we generated our wealth, so stay tuned!
Monday, 2 March 2015
Taking a break, FIRE in progress.....
Please bear with me, there will be infrequent posts in the next month or two as we relocate back to Australia. Many thanks to all of you who have been reading and commenting - I promise to write more once the dust settles !
Monday, 2 February 2015
The final month
It’s hard not to be quietly happy as I embark on my final month
of a 17 year career. Adding to this inner glow is the fact it’s a short month
being February, and even further multiplying the joy is the presence of two
holidays. Since today is nearly done as I write this, that makes it only 17
working days left…. Sweet !
So how did it come to this, 17 years boiled down to the next
17 days ? I don’t really know myself and will take further time post FIRE to
digest and understand it all. Anyway the point of this post is not to gloat,
but to reflect a little on where my head is at right now… There are plenty of things
to do since in our case, FIRE also involves an international relocation with
two young kids. We are lucky to have family helping on the destination side and
we already bought some bits and pieces (fridge, washing machine, car) so we can
hit the ground running there. We are fortunate to have an empty house ready and
waiting for us too! On the departure side it will be somewhat more chaotic, the
main thing yet to be booked is the moving company, which is the key job for
this week. There’s a long list of other admin tasks (closing bank accounts, credit
cards, change of address, etc), but still plenty of time for these.
From a career perspective, I’m keen to end it well. It’s
been a happy and successful path over the years so why not end on a good note
too... How to do this ? I’m trying to close out loose ends, let go for all
other issues to be handed over (doesn’t come naturally for me) and giving a
good exit story so that people can understand my decision. This last part is
one of the more difficult things. I’ve been reading the MMM forums about how to
explain FIRE, whether to tell or not, etc. In our case, I really don’t see the
need to go into FIRE voluntarily, but if someone asks me directly I also wouldn’t
lie about it. Making things a little easier is the merging of FIRE with
geographical relocation, so it’s easier to steer the conversation to the
latter. The crux of our decision to move home is down to personal reasons - the
desire to live near our extended family, and raise our kids as Australians.
This is an easy story for most people to grasp, and it’s also the honest truth.
Therefore I tend to leave it at that and not bother about the FIRE part.
Sometimes people probe into it, e.g. what will you do there ? can you continue
to work in the same field ? etc. I usually answer these honestly and move the
conversation into other areas. Am I being evasive or trying to hide my wealth ?
Maybe, I don’t know really. But in my experience talking about money matters /
relative wealth with the majority of family and friends usually ends badly. I do
worry it might leave the other person feeling jealous, that we are “different “
or somehow out of touch with real people. I don’t want to drive a wedge between
us and others who might not have much prospect of FIRE, or even any concept
that such a thing can be achieved without a winning lottery ticket.
Anyway, in the interest of keeping this briefer than recent
posts, it’s a very exciting time and I’m really looking forward to the coming months.
I thought I’d be quite stressed by now about the move but it’s not the case and
seems to be offset by the eager anticipation of FIRE and finally heading “home”.
The end of “work” is not such a big issue. As explained in the Evolving
Perspectives of FF post, for some years now I have been coming to the idea that
I will continue to work after RE and phase my exit from the conventional career.
It’s nice to be able to think about all the different possibilities, projects, hobbies
etc on the horizon. And often I have to catch myself and remember to take it
slow for the first 6 to 12 months. I got some good advice in the MMM forum
along these lines, and to be open to things that come my way rather than trying
to initiate/plan everything. I will try my best to follow this.
Tuesday, 20 January 2015
Evolving perspectives of FF
So far I’ve written about my general framework and preferred
pathway to FF. One of the objectives for this blog is also to reflect on my
personal life transition. This post will make a start on this by considering
how my personal/internal perspective of FF has changed over the years, which
has been quite substantial. Apologies if it’s rambling but that can be the
nature of self-reflection.
As mentioned in the very first post, when I started out my
career it was all about accumulating wealth as soon as possible. Work was a
means to end. And the “end” clearly in my mind was being permanently parked on
a picturesque beach, golf course, or other similar pleasurable location. I
guess it’s a common aspiration for many young, ambitious graduates (and even
the older, less ambitious variety too!). I used to track my net worth each
month in a book, and drew satisfaction in the slow but gradual accumulation of
this wealth pile. I was inching towards my goal and it was an excellent way to
keep focused and driven in my career, budgeting, saving and investing habits.
My mindset stayed like this for around 8-10 years. I can’t
recall the exact point, but somewhere in this timeframe and approaching the 30
milestone, I noticed my perspective starting to change. In retrospect, I reckon
there were a few factors involved in this. When you are starting out, the FF
goal is a long way off and rather abstract. It is easy to keep your head down
and focused, safe in the knowledge that you are heading in the right direction
and will one day reach the hallowed land. However, once you start making
tangible progress towards FF and it is no longer a dim flicker of light at the
end of the tunnel, but really coming into sight, then it starts to take away
from everyday focus and becomes a substantial distraction in its own right.
This can manifest in different ways, a few of the key issues
I encountered were : 1) lower tolerance for work / boss ”issues” that in the
past would be easily accommodated as a necessary evil, 2) questioning the end
game and if I would really be able to while away 40+ years on the beach and
golf course. In some ways these are good problems to have. It’s like an
enlightment to finally take more conscious control of one’s life and
re-discover your intent and purpose. That is of course, provided that you
really know what you want to do with your life ! This can also be a disorientating
and destabilizing phase. After spending the better part of a decade on
autopilot and happily tolerating the daily grind for the pursuit of later
rewards, it can require a huge adjustment in mind set to revisit these basic questions,
especially without any strong financial motivational force. I guess it could
even be like the Shawshank Redemption movie, where the freed prisoner has been
in jail so long that he/she no longer knows what to do when finally being
granted freedom, and might even prefer to stay in prison, as crazy as it might sound.
I struggled for a long while on this, some years in fact.
Mainly it was a challenge career-wise as I lost motivation and direction.
Previously my career goals were always clearly aimed to progress and grow my
salary and bonuses in order to accumulate enough wealth for early retirement. I
knew what to do and didn’t question it, so things just chugged along. However
when I began to deliberate these issues - the need to continue, more
“meaningful” pursuits, etc – the answers didn’t come so easily. There was a
sense of limbo or “no man’s land”. In some ways I wish I had been braver and
declared FF at an earlier point, like Mr Money Moustache and others. But I was
always a bit conservative and wanting a bigger buffer or margin of safety. Also
I became quite attached to my job and resident country and it was quite easy to
keep postponing the decision another year. Finally as already explained, I
didn’t really know what to do with myself next and wasn’t quite mentally ready for
FF, even though the balance sheet had probably passed that threshold some years
earlier.
I’m pleased to say that as the time of FF now approaches,
the uncertainty and instability is melting away and replaced by excitement and
newfound enthusiasm. Perhaps the hard part for me was deciding, as one can
agonise especially over timing. It’s always tempting to defer and accumulate a
bigger reserve in case of the unexpected. However, after booking the one way
flight home and giving notice to the boss, the decision is now made and we are
past the point of no return. I’m looking
forward to the final weeks of “salaried life”, finishing off this chapter well,
and eagerly await the opening of a new life chapter in the coming months!
So in reflection, there has been a massive change in what FF
means to me. The initial dream of hedonistic life was useful to put me on the
path and stay motivated. But as I started to make serious progress, the reality
also came to me that it would not be satisfying to park on the beach for
decades. This was disorientating because 1) it meant I had to find a new end
goal, and 2) substantially brought forward the timeframe for FF. The second
point is due to the huge difference between assuming no further employment
income and an opulent lifestyle, versus some continuing employment income and a
moderate lifestyle. Gradually I have recalibrated my idea of FF and the key
point is being Free to choose if, what and how one might work. Not necessarily
that you will never work again. I am really excited about the possibilities of
working in areas where I have a deep passion, genuine interest and the chance
to directly help people in need. Of course these possibilities always existed
but before now my priority was Earning, which led me to other pursuits
instead…….
This has been a longwinded post but if I were to draw one key
conclusion it would be that there is a lot of psychology that supports (or can
derail) ones progress to FF. It’s important to be aware of your own internal dialogue,
assumptions and motivation, as well as how these will change over time and as
you get closer to FF.
Tuesday, 30 December 2014
What’s this blog about ?
I consider myself very fortunate.
Thank you for reading this blog. I hope you find it useful and appreciate any comments. As today is 30th December I’m sure many of you are pondering resolutions for 2015 and the years ahead. I wish you every success in pursuing your goals and most importantly to enjoy the journey along the way – FFA.
I have a lovely wife and two beautiful kids. We are healthy
and have basically everything we need. For the past 18 years I’ve enjoyed a
great career working both in my home country and abroad. Before that, during my
first 20 years I had a happy childhood and a good education. Now I find myself
at the crossroads again, closing one life chapter and soon to open the next….
When I started my career all those years ago, I had a clear
goal in mind which was to retire by the age of 35. In those days and with all
my youthful confidence, I was adamant that work is merely a means to an end. No
matter what you might say in the interview to get the job, the honest truth is
that you are only there for the pay check. Come the future day when I have
enough money to no longer need that pay check, I would just as soon be on the
beach, golf course, etc.
Some 18 years later, it’s with a measure of pride that I am
now reaching this goal. Despite being 3 years late versus the target, I won’t
beat myself up too much since it’s also 27 years earlier than the standard retirement
age.
There are some big changes and exciting times ahead for us.
I recently gave notice to finish up my job, and we are planning to relocate to
our hometown in the coming months to settle down near our families and spend
more time with my wife and kids.
With this brief introduction out the way, let me now come to
the question : What’s this blog about ?
My first idea is to reflect on the transition in life phases
from “working” to “financial freedom” (FF). I see quite a few blogs about the
journey to FF, and also by those who have achieved FF, but not so many at the
point of transition. Logically it should be a happy time, but as with all major
life changes I guess there will be some bumps in the path too. I look forward
to reflecting on the experience here.
Secondly, I am starting to consider future projects/hobbies/pursuits
for the next phase, and one area I have in mind is financial planning/advice. I’ve
always had a keen interest in the world of money and lately I’m eager to pursue
activities that directly help others and give something back. This blog is a
way for me to explore further on this and test the water.
Thirdly, I have benefitted a lot over the years from the
experience and kind advice of friends and colleagues. As I said at the outset,
I feel very fortunate and hope through this blog I can in some small way return
the favour. Please understand that I’m not an expert and in fact do not have
any formal qualification in this field. I will be the first to admit that I
have made many mistakes along the way too. But in the end I am reaching my goal
and so at least in a practical sense, I hope this blog might benefit like-minded
people who are working towards their own FF.
Further to the above three points, here are some additional
intentions :
This blog is ….
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This blog is not ….
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Honest
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Financial advice (please read the disclaimer)
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Practical
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Revealing the secrets to get rich quick
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Anonymous (or Private from my perspective)
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Explaining the basics of finance / investment
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Thank you for reading this blog. I hope you find it useful and appreciate any comments. As today is 30th December I’m sure many of you are pondering resolutions for 2015 and the years ahead. I wish you every success in pursuing your goals and most importantly to enjoy the journey along the way – FFA.
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