To RE or not to RE ?

First things first, sorry about the corny title. I just couldn’t help myself.

While I’m apologizing, sorry too for the heavy use of acronyms in this blog. I’m learning them too actually, I never knew about FIRE until a google search led me to the MMM website (oops another one) a few months ago. I hope you can figure them out. If not, please comment and I will happily explain.

 

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Financially Independent Retire Early… it makes sense right ? The natural thing to do if you are financially independent is to retire… Or is it ?

Responsibility

We already covered some philosophical money issues in “How much is enough ? (part two)”, including my views against accumulating excessive wealth and the reasons for drawing a line in the sand called “enough”. But does it necessarily follow that you should retire immediately upon becoming FF ?

The answer of course is no. Being FF gives you more choices than the average person, but if you genuinely love your work and want to continue, there is no reason to stop immediately, or even ever. The important thing is to choose it consciously and intentionally, rather than just drift along because you don’t know what else to do, or maybe you feel uncomfortable explaining it to your colleagues, or other such questionable reasons that you will likely regret later on.

Here’s how another blogger describes it :

“While piling up net worth is a safe strategy, it is not necessarily an optimal strategy, given the fact that life is finite.  Once you have reached Financial Independence, you are now responsible for how you spend the rest of your life.  If continuing to work brings you joy, by all means continue, but remember to take more vacations and explore your alternatives. Bonnie Ware, a hospice nurse, listed the top 5 regrets people expressed on their deathbed:  working more or harder than they felt they needed to, not living a life true to oneself, not having the courage to express one’s feelings, losing touch with friends, and not allowing oneself to be happier.” - http://escapevelocity2020.com/about-me/

The bolded part was added by me. This is something I’ve been grappling with in the latter part of my career, as reflected in the “Evolving perspectives of FF” post. This might sound ridiculous, but in some ways it’s actually easier when you’re not FF, as you don’t really need to think too much about your life purpose and goals. For me anyway, I spent many years on auto pilot, toiling away purely in a quest for that “one day” when it would no longer be necessary. There was always a clear motivating force (money) and a clear goal (FF), even though these did not arise from much intentional thought on my part.

However, once you reach FF, or start getting close to reaching it, you need to find new source of motivation and fresh goals. As EV2020 says, the responsibility is now squarely on you. Auto pilot will no longer suffice. I believe the avoidance of this responsibility may well be one of the real reasons why FF people often choose not to RE, or at least delay it for extended periods.

Our decision / indecision

It’s difficult to say exactly when we became FF, depending on the criteria. I’d estimate based on a 3% SWR assumption and excluding any home equity in net worth, we crossed the line several years ago. So why keep going? In our case, I can deduce five factors that lead us to postpone RE :

·         Inertia : It’s natural to resist change and we are no different.

·         Geography : Having fun overseas…. “We’re going to spend the rest of our lives in Oz so why not one more year abroad, especially as we’re here and all setup now”

·         Re-employability (if needed): Being in a highly paid niche job makes you think long and hard before you quit. Especially in my case no such job exists in my home town. It is a completely irreversible decision. Perhaps this would not be such a big factor if you are in a more common field (e.g. accounting, teaching, etc).

·         Procreation : We had two babies in the past three years and it’s difficult to contemplate three major life changes at once (parenthood, retirement, relocating countries).

·         Greed / Fear : Let me expand a bit more on this one

Greed and fear are primal emotions that influence basically all money matters, so naturally they play a role in this too. Greed can somehow overrule the views you might have about excessive accumulation. Especially as your passive income starts to multiply and all of this flows back into more investments, the wealth starts to multiply quickly. This might become addictive in its own right. You begin to lose sight of the original plan and fall in love with your bank balance. Greed often works in tandem with his buddy Fear, who might also start whispering in your ear: “What if you run out of money, can you really cope without a monthly paycheck, markets might collapse soon after you quit work, etc.” I think you can imagine with the combination of these two goblins incessantly chattering away in the back of your head, it can invariably lead to…

OMY syndrome

One More Year. I confess we gave into this, but only once! We seriously considered pulling the trigger in early 2014. But we had a very good (and I would say valid) excuse in the joyful arrival of our second child in late 2013. Once the timing became apparent, we reassessed our plans. I was still keen initially to stick with the timeline. But as usually happens, Mrs FFA talked some sense into me. As already described above, it would be difficult for anyone to juggle three major life changes at once (newborn baby, retirement, relocating countries). In hindsight, even without this valid excuse, I am glad we took the extra year. We made the most of the bonus time overseas, and it has allowed us to mentally prepare for the big changes ahead. On the financial front it has enabled us to accumulate an extra buffer so our retirement economics are not delicately balanced.  

Therefore, while we did take OMY, fortunately we did not get trapped in OMY syndrome. In our case it was a conscious decision and not one that became ongoing, as some people seem to get stuck in.

Other considerations

I’ve been lucky to spend the latter part of my career in a good industry that pays well. A lot of people I work with have salaries and bonuses that are substantially above average. However, it also tends to be highly materialistic and for most of these people lifestyle inflation more than keeps up with earnings. Therefore sadly the majority get no closer to FIRE than the average person, despite having many times the earnings.

I’ve also seen a few others like myself who capitalize on the opportunity and exit at a young age to start a new life... Hooray!

But there’s another minority I observe who genuinely love what they do and will keep doing it long after they no longer need the paycheck. Other possible reasons for these folks not to RE include:

·         Not ready to take responsibility for what to do next (as explained earlier)

·         The power/status of their working persona

·         The social benefits of work

The power/status factor can be a big one. You might enjoy a high level of authority (official and/or unofficial power) in your workplace, where everyone looks up to you and respects you. Will you be prepared to give that up to be a stay at home parent and get bossed around by toddlers all day ? It’s hard for a “somebody” to accept being a nobody. Although this depends a lot on your ego of course.

Conclusion

FF doesn’t necessarily mean RE, although it is a prerequisite. The RE decision extends well beyond financial readiness into many other factors, not least of which the question “what do you REALLY want to do with your life, now that you fully own your time and don’t need more money?” Surprisingly, this question is not as straightforward as one might think, and if you don’t have the answer it might be tempting to roll on with the status quo. But frankly speaking, such avoidance is a cop out… FF is an amazing privilege that so many others would love to have, please don’t waste it! Tackle the challenges of RE head on, face up to any fears and accept full responsibility for your life ahead.